Sex with a girlfriend doesn't excite youĮven if some of the wildest adventures with your girlfriend don't excite you and the image of another man shirtless or a naked image excites you to the core, then there are chances that you might be gay. If you get excited about seeing him romantically, sexually then there are chances that you are gay. When you don't find your hormones getting excited when you spot a beautiful woman, then you need to check if you get attracted at very high levels when you see a man. But if you find yourself checking out other women when other men when you are with your girl, then do think it over again. If you are a man and you have a girlfriend, and you check out other women while you are with her, then it's not a big deal. When rejection could entice you to get together with another man physically, then there are chances of you being gay. If ever a girl has rejected you in your life and you had felt better while connecting with a man more than just emotional space, then you need to ponder about your orientation. However, it is recommended to consult a psychologist or a renowned psychiatrist to elaborate on your past experiences and try to fortify your orientation.
If ever in your life, you had cheated a girl for another man, and then it surely indicates that you have some extreme level of attraction towards the man more than what you have for the girl.